10 Whispers in the art of dialogue

Beloved .. Even live up Bhawwaratna .. And glow in maintaining the atmosphere of our meetings and meetings .. In order to get out of fruit and usefulness; wrote you this quick whispers, out of a loving heart, a miss to settle down in your heart, Farfq by: Whisper First: Do not cross from in front of you, and allow it to put his mind, and the ends of the display in full. Whisper II: Try to accommodate all the claims of the other party before answering it, and lingered to talk to him before. Whisper III: Never to despise the views of others, and showed interest, including talking, even if not convinced by what they say. Whisper IV: simplify the talk, he addressed the people what sense, and avoid rants and concavity to speak. Whisper V: Brevity is, not overlooking Viml, Fajtsr your words, and speak only as utilized mentioned. Whisper VI: politeness in dialogue with scholars and leaders and opinion, and select the appropriate times to do so, they do not abound, it is only they are busy with what is most important. Whisper VII: to avoid talking to people, and discussed the opinion without exposure to the writer. Whisper H: Courtship and soothing to talk with the dialogue with Him, and to prevent you disagree with him or mistreat him, that he claimed to accept your opinion, {speak to him mildly yen to remember or perhaps fear} Taha 44. Whisper IX: Choose the most beautiful and best terms, and beware of slander, accusation and warn of intentions. Whisper X: If you feel that dialogue is futile, and interest from non-existent, or that the other party has begun to debate, argument, avoid it, and the Prophet peace be upon him say: (I'm the leader of a house in Paradise for those who leave crouch mirrors and that was right). Or as he said peace be upon him.